daily om: unexpected enlightenment

Daily Om

Our individual journeys take us into many unexpected situations where we encounter a wide variety of people—some quite like ourselves and some very different. We cannot anticipate these meetings, but we can make the most of them when they take place. When we are courteous as a matter of course and open-minded in our assessment of the individuals whose lives briefly touch our own, we are more apt to stumble upon surprising gems of wisdom that open our eyes to new worlds of possibility. Every person we meet can affect us profoundly, just as every situation we find ourselves in can teach us something new. 

To fully embrace this fact, it is essential that we acknowledge that everyone is valuable in their own way and capable of expanding our horizons. Since we never know when we will happen upon those individuals who will unveil truths before us, we should extend to all people the same generous level of kindness, care, compassion, and understanding. When we assume everyone we meet is special and treat them as such, we can develop a strong rapport quickly. By making an effort to adopt a positive attitude toward others at all times, we ensure that our emotions do not blind us to wisdom that may be lurking in difficult or distressing situations. We are accordingly receptive to knowledge that comes to us in the form of examples, advice, and direct teaching. 

These brief relationships ultimately have the potential to enrich our lives in a very concrete way. But the wisdom we gain is proportional to the attention we pay to the world around us. The responsibility is on us to maintain a state of awareness that allows us to recognize when we are in the presence of someone consciously or unconsciously in possession of knowledge that will change us significantly. When we are cognizant of the potential for unexpected enlightenment, we make a habit of turning strangers into friends, thus ensuring that we are never without a font of wisdom from which to draw. 

The Daily OM

wooohooooo!  I met 7 new people while bartending last night, got to have fun and magical conversations! I love to meet new people!!  so fun

The Erotic Rockstar's Orgasms: PART ONE

eroticrockstar:

I spent the first decade and change of my sex-life focused on how to be the most amazing, talented giver that I could possibly be. And Damn did I get good at playing that role! I learned high quality touch skills. I learned ambidexterity and how to use my mouth, both hands, and my cock. Even simultaneously if I chose. I learned literally dozens of unique ways of petting a pussy. I learned about presence. I learned how to hold space through crygasms. I even learned how to handle two (or more) women’s sexual energy simultaneously. I learned how to control my erotic energy, maintaining a lower level of arousal until ‘she’ had enough orgasms to be fully satisfied, and only then allowing myself to cum.

Women loved it. No doubt. A man who truly knew how to give? And loved to do so? They would revel in receiving.

By the time I was in my late twenties though, I started noticing that I was getting resentful. I didn’t want to be some asshole that didn’t give a fuck about a woman’s experience, and only cared about getting his rocks off, but was sex really supposed to just be about me giving pleasure to women? What about my pleasure? According to certain perspectives, my pleasure should be coming from experiencing my woman’s pleasure. Well yes, most definitely it was. But only through that? It was increasingly not working for me.

I was witnessing women go into these incredible states of extended sexual ecstasy, and something was screaming out from inside of me, “I want to know what that’s like, too!” Don’t I deserve it? I’ve spent years giving this pleasure.

I looked and looked and nearly everything that I found for men was on how to please women. Well, not to toot my own horn, but I was already an expert there. Where I was deficient was on experiencing my own pleasure.

When a woman did try to put all of her focus on me and my pleasure, I wouldn’t allow it. I would immediately be trying to give to her simultaneously, or I would unconsciously disassociate from my body and mentally check out. Something was going on there.

I became determined to fix this.

Balance. It’s a good thing.

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To be continued…

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I LOVE you Destin! :)

Subversive Sensuality Morsel 18

karmakorrupt:

Joy and Love

The one thing we all have in common is we want to be happy.  If you want to feel good and be happy, I can suggest a good place to start:

Stop focusing on others. Stop letting what they do and how they feel affect you.  I notice when I don’t focus on how others feel about me, I am free to feel what I want to feel about myself.  So if I want to experience good feelings, I am free to do that.  I am not bound by the judgment, thoughts or decisions of another.  Since I cannot change another person’s reality…I do not try.  Instead I focus my energies on creating my own reality just the way I desire it to be.

Take control of your own needs and desires.  The money you have been waiting for, the sex you want, the love you need. Take control of it all. Don’t wait for another person to fulfill you or to give you what you want from them. If you’re not getting what you want from someone, you are not in alignment with them at the time.  Period.  When you are in harmony with someone, they will naturally be drawn to you.

If you want joy and you’re not getting it, make yourself happy. If you want sex…sex yourself.  If you want love….love yourself.  All that you are seeking from someone else, you will find the ability to create it within.  And naturally, only every time, others will be attracted to you who are ready to give you those things as well.

Create love and joy and all else will fall into place.