continued thoughts on loyalty

more of my ramblings.  eventually they will all piece together.  I love using the internet and blogging as a way of opening up my thoughts.

loyalty often times means hanging in even through the challenging times, putting my best foot forward to add my part of effort and support.  Growth and maturity occur when we give without expectations.  When there is a continual flow of exchange of effort and lifelines then the fundamentals of loyalty remain in tact.

We all go through personal obstacles and challenges.  When we get too caught up in our selves, pitty parties, hard on ourselves, whiney, etc.  we neglect the dynamic platforms that essentially “feed” us and support us.  *this can be devastating.  I think we are all part of so many dynamics, that this kind of inward pull out, can disrupt a lot of connections in our life.

From my experiences it takes an average of at least one year to establish wether loyalty will be a connection that holds energy together.

From my experiences after that, it’s important to remain mindful of the actual give and take.

too much take without giving creates depletion, and eventually over time, this depletion will be let go.

give more in life

you live more

take more in life

you deplete, therefore you live less

Life is always gonna be challenging on some level or another.  We simply cannot expect everything around us to not require more and more of us.

loyalty creates long term relationships: business, romance, friendship.

Be patient, don’t keep jumping ship just because you are uncomfortable, or are chasing the next fix.  Stability in life is an essential life skill.  It produces harmony and flow.

It requires constant effort, even when your tired, angry, upset, confused, etc.  work through it.  take on the lesson

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