my boho life

good morning!

starting the day off opening up my heart, my arms, and my mind.  give more love.  I have learned that challenges happen, wether they are self created, or created by those around you, nevertheless, finding the best mental and emotional path to climb out and move forward.  thus give more love.

are you feeling me?

do you ever feel cranky, irritable, and snappy around people?  do you ever zone in on something that you or others do repetitively that drive you mad?

I could be alone on this, and that’s all good.  

pauses.  sips coffee…..

in the beginning of our adventure, let’s call it a love adventure, because honestly, everything that shone and I have created thus far has all been from the heart.

every photo taken

every photo shared

every profile feature enabled.

all from the heart.

we are surrounded by love, and there is always a need for more.  we are humans on a life experience, and sometimes we need reminders, we need the spark to go off!  we get buried deep in the trials of life, of surviving, of searching for our own love, our partner, our families , etc.

sometimes I’m not able to give all of the love I can.  it happens to me a lot while I am bartending.  I honestly wish I could freeze time and give the extras that I feel are needed and being requested.  It’s not easy.  I would be the worst bartender and nobody would ever have a drink or have fresh clean glasses to use.

I am working on this.  I am seeking solutions.  One solution that comes to mind, is to continue building my shifts, to get lots of people, new and familiar to meet and hang out.  If only I can surround them in our love, in our efforts, in our appreciation for coming down and hanging out.  Perhaps new love will spark, who knows.

I’m always looking at the options.

and of course online.

how do others feel more love.  the bar is actually a little more easy…. I think.  and I’m grateful to have such a social community there.

How do we translate more on the web.  How does our abiliities as creators from the heart get delivered.

I love the internet.  Yet I do not live for the internet.

When I am alone I will often browse, and explore the web.  When I am with friends, shone, at work, etc.  you will not see me in the “zombie zone”.

there is quite an epedimic I see around.  Ghost people walking around, hunched over, poor posture, spending every single moment online.

I can only think of it this way, the feelings we get when others react with us online, when we see things that inspire us, perhaps it’s what we need more in our real world lives.  How do we get it off the screen and into our homes, our jobs, our lives????  anybody???

feel free to pop in at any time.

I would love to hear what you are feeling?

of course we can become too hermitville if we sit in our rooms all by ourself without any internet connection.  ha ha  there has to be a balance!

shone helped my addiction in the beginning.  he did not wish to compete with the phone.  I’m so thankful for his requests.

we share a phone, sometimes he has it, sometimes I have it.

it keeps it less of a priority in my life,  quite the opposite of somebody who runs two 24/7 online websites full of people, and community.

it’s just us two.

things might take a little longer, while we search for the just right, and also while we wait for technology and the adult world to work better together.

what I can say, is that we do provide a lot of love,  and it continues to grow and is reaching epic proportions.

this is more than good enough for my soul and we give all of ourselves.  well mostly, saving just a little here and there for us….

and when I see and understand that the world still needs a lot more love, I am so delighted to stand up and rise to the occasion.  More LOVE is available for everybody.

and when we give more love, we receive more love.  it’s such a wild and fantastical situation.  we don’t run dry, we have more than we could ever think possible!

sips coffee….

writing this helps strengthen my love muscle!  intentions are everything.

forgiving is huge!

I will tell you, I have a couple missteps that I need to forgive.  It will be a great part of my journey to let it go………

I work on it.

I welcome you to join me.  Open your heart, open your arms, open your mind.

forgive

move forward lighter in life.

give more love

the feelings and benefits are insurmountable!  

happiness and longevity will only continue to increase in our lives.  this I know from personal experiences.

we don’t have to be perfect.  these little challenges are here for a reason.  we must participate in our journeys.

give more love today!  and if you want, tell me about it.  IF you are 18 and over, I’ll gift you a membership to bohocrush. where you can continue to work on your love muscle!

xoxo

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